11.13.2009

Little Hands

No matter what I find myself doing these days, there at least two, if not four, little hands wiggling their way into the middle of it.


This intrusion naturally impedes my progress, and leaves me with two choices: I can either impatiently shoo those little hands away, or I can patiently guide them.


It is so easy for me, a scheduling list maker, to become flustered by interruptions that hamper my momentum.  But what is my role as mother, if not to lovingly instruct my little ones?


The little hands ache for inclusion.  For new experiences; a brand of independence that requires big hands to back away, yet remain constant and close.


There will always be chores, but there will not always be children.





So I welcome the little hands.  And the hearts that accompany them.





{I'll always welcome you too!  Stay a while...}


20 comments:

Valencia said...

What a sweet way to look at it!

Kelly's Ideas said...

Great post - I know exactly what you mean - time goes by so fast and before you know it those little hands are bigger than yours.
Love to you.
Kelly

Jeni said...

A good reminder! I struggle every day with feeling like my 3 year old is in my way as I try to get things done. Instead, I should be including her, taking the time to talk with her, show her how things are done, and help her learn to be a functional part of the family.

summur braley said...

LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!
THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS ENCOURAGING ME IN MY JOB AS A MOTHER!

jennifer said...

What a sweet image! Excellent post.

Jamie said...

WOW! You called me out personally with this one! I am constantly catching myself, as I too am a scheduling list maker :)
Thank you for the sweet reminder!

Oh My Goddess said...

So beautifully said!
Thank you.

christinnjon said...

You have such a beautiful way with words, Jessica. They are so close to my own heart. I, too, am a scheduling list maker. At times I do more scheduling and rearranging then actually checking off! But yes, I need to remember my role...it's not to "get it done as fast as I can", but to live IN each moment and remember little hearts are more important. Thank you!!

AJ said...

A wonderful reminder to be a patient mommy... sometimes it is hard but so worth it!

blueviolet said...

I think that's exactly what we all should do!

gianna said...

when my almost 3 year old says she wants to help cook, i am always trying to find the least time consuming and least dangerous job for her. the other day, she wanted to help make apple pie including cutting the apples up. ahhh! so she got herself a butter knife and i gave her an apple. she tried so HARD to cut that apple and she had a really good line around it (fairly deep, too). then, the next day, she wanted to put the rolls into the oven. AAHHH!

kailani said...

What a great reminder! It's something I definitely need to work on.

Jennifer said...

wonderful post! again... you have a wonderful and patient mother heart- and i can always learn from you! with daughters that are 20, 3 and 2 and 3 sons inbetween, i am still learning, and am encouraged and HUMBLED by the things that i learn from you! i especially like the last part- we'll always have chores, but not the little hands. so true- the days can just drag and be so tedious, but the years fly by. years ago, i had 4 under 4, with 3 in diapers,a nd it was CRAZY! but the years when the little ones are small are so precious- and i have to remember to take the time to do those things that i think i'm too "busy" to do.

thanks again for the gentle reminder!

Happy said...

Preach it, Jessie. That's some good stuff. I can be so misguided by my own agenda at times...I certainly know I need to let the little hands in my life help more often. I'm better at it with the tweens, but even with them I'm usually a tad er, bossy...

Pinkie said...

Great post and thank you for the reminder. There will always be chores but I waited a long time for my daughter and she won't always want to be cuddled by Mommy.

Brian Miller said...

what a wonderful post...as a dad of little hands, while at times they are not convient, they always add so much more. congrats on the goddess award!

mo.stoneskin said...

I love the little hands of my daughter as they pry their way. Just a few hours ago she was trying to pry my post-work-Friday beer from my hands. No, I said, not for babies. She smiled, then lifted up my t-shirt and gently poked my tummy-button.

K said...

This is a great reminder.

I'm a schedule, list person two and live at the speed of toddler can occasionally frustrate me.

Joanie M said...

I miss the little hands. My youngest recently went off to college.

tattytiara said...

Good mom. Mine was good too, but definitely more the shooer of hands away variety. She loved me and kept me safe, but I know I'd have benefited from a little more hand dirtying.

Lovely blog!